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Guru Nanak’s Concept of Practical Spirituality

Guru Nanak’s concept of Practical Spirituality

 

Spirituality is a broad term covering living by higher values. It covers ethics, peace, and tranquillity. Some people link it with religion, some people do not, thinking religion is only dogmas, superstitions and rituals. However, dogmas do not form basics of any religion, and are later additions. It is also a fact that religion teaches ethics and religious organisations are always the first to provide succour to people in case of disasters natural or otherwise. Therefore, all religions in their pristine form are desirable to follow.

 

Gurbani says is religion should make better human beings. We read in Sukhmani Sahib.

 

Sarab dharam mah-i sreyst dharam. Hark ko naam jap nirmal karam. M: 5, p 266.

Of all the religious practices, the most sublime is to remember and conform to Naam or virtues and commands of the Almighty.

 

The fifth Guru says “Nanak key ghar keyval naam” M; 5, p 1136.

The house of Nanak, i.e. the Sikh faith, relies only on Naam.

 

Faith in dogmas, rituals or superstitions achieves nothing. Guru Nanak says in Japji Paurri 6.

 

Jeyti siratth upaaee veykha vin karma ki milai laee.

In this universe, let me see if anyone can find God without working for it.

 

Basic meaning of Naam is name or identity. Naam has two forms in Gurbani.

 

The first is Divine virtues or attributes by which the Almighty is recognised. These are numerous and called Kirtam Naam, i.e. names based on attributes.  Guru Nanak says:

 

Teyrey naam aneyka roop ananta kahan na jaahee terey gun keytey. M; 1, p 358.

O Almighty, You have numerous names and countless forms; it is not possible to count Your virtues/attributes.

 

The second is Sat Naam, meaning eternal Naam or authority, i.e. Divine writ, Hukam, or laws of nature. Guru Sahib says:

 

Eyko Naam hukam hai Nanak satigur deeaa bujhaaey jeeo. M: 1, p 71

The One Naam is Hukam, commands or authority. The Almighty is the lone Supreme authority.

 

Guru Nanak has put these in the Mool Mantar, meaning the root mantra or formula as follows.

 

One Naam of the One Almighty.

 

1 OankaarOne God who is the beginning and indivisible.

 

Sat NaamGod, whose writ is inevitable.

 

This is to be kept in mind for compliance. The fourth Guru says:

Jap man satinaam sadaa satinaam.

My mind, ever remember and comply with Divine writ/Hukam.

 

Kirtam Naam as numerous attributes of the Almighty.

 

Karta Purakhthe Creator who is all-pervasive.

 

Nirbhauwithout fear. The Creator made the laws of nature, pre-existed them and hence is not subject to them. These laws have not been in fear of, i.e. to suit anyone. The Creator is not answerable to anyone.

 

Guru Nanak elaborates on the Creator being Nirbhau.

 

Bhai vich pavan vahai sad vaau —-  sagliaa bhau likhiaa sir leykh. Nanak nirbhau nirankaar sach eyk. M: 1, p 464.

Every entity is in fear/obedience of the Creator, only the One Eternal Formless Creator is not. God is the highest authority.

 

Nirvairwithout enmity. Treats all equally.

 

Akal Mooratepitome of eternity, transcends time. Is Timeless and deathless.

 

Ajooniwithout life form. God is the Spirit.

 

Saibh’nSelf created, Self-existent. God cannot be installed as an idol.

 

GurprasaadGod, the Spirit, is formless and hence not found by the senses. IT is recognised with the true guru’s guidance.

 

Note: The pronoun IT has indicates the Almighty is not a person and is gender neutral.

 

Understanding of Divine virtues motivate to have vision of the Almighty. The latter comes by obedience, says Guru Nanak:

Teyrey gun gaavaa deyh bujhaaee; jaisey sach mah rahau rajaaee. M: 1, p 795.

O Almighty, please give understanding of Your virtues and powers; so that I live by Your will/commands.

 

Khaana peenaa hasna sauna visar gaiaa hai marna. Khasam visaar khuaari keeni dhrig jeevan nahi rahna. M: 1, p 1254.

People eat, drink, laugh and rest; but have forgotten death. It is shameful not to obey commands of the Master, who provides all the pleasures.

 

The true guru guides on the right path.

 

Nanak satgur bheyttiai poori hovai jugat. Hasandiaa kheylandiaa painandiaa khaavandiaa vichey hovey mukat. M: 5, p 522.

One knows the perfect way of leading life by following the true guru’s guidance. Then one remains free of bondage while laughing, playing/enjoying, wearing good clothes and enjoying food.

 

The soul comes from the Spirit to give life to the body, and wishes to merge back after death of the body. It is given a role to play in life with duties associated with it. The human being comes with four potentials for their roles, namely:

 

Dharamdutifully perform the role in life.

Arthobtain and contribute to economic wellbeing, and development.

Kaamfulfilment of desires and aspirations.

 

If the soul is possessed by temptations in life connected with the above three, it loses its pristine form and cannot merge with the Spirit. This is overcome with the guru’s guidance to attain the fourth.

 

MokhFreedom from temptations.

 

Guru Nanak says

 

Satigur kai vas chaar padaarath. Teen samaaey eyk kritaarath. M: 1, p 1345.

The four potentials are in hand of the true guru; if the three are controlled with his guidance, success in the fourth is obtained.

 

Guru Sahib says no other means work.

 

Manhatth budhi keyteeaa keytey beyd beechaar.

Many people act by own will; many perform rituals with ideas taken from the Vedas.

 

Keytey bandhan jeea key Gurmukhi mokh duaar.

There are numerous fetters for the mind. Emancipation is attained by following the guru.

 

Sachahu orai sabh ko upar sach aachaar. M: 1, p 62.

One cannot reach the Eternal with these; above these is truthful conduct.

 

The fetters mentioned above are:

 

Karam dharam sabh bandhna paap pun sanbandh. M: 3, p 551.

All religious rituals are fetters – which hold back from complying with Naam. They are based on superstitions good and bad deeds.

 

Examples.

Here are practical examples from Gurbani on what is truthful living in all aspects of life. They are analogies for attaining union of the soul with the Spirit.

 

Question: Kiv Sachiaara hooeeai kiv koorrai tuttai paal. Japji Paurri 1.

How to demolish the wall of falsehood and be considered truthful to be accepted for union with the Spirit. – The wall of falsehood is Haumai or ego, i.e. acting by self-will.

 

Answer: Hukam rajaaee chalna nanak likhiaa naal. Japji Paurr 1, p 1

It is willing conformance to Hukam, Divine commands, the laws of nature, they are written on the conscience.

 

Love.

Ih kineyhi aasqi doojai lagai jaaey. Nanak aasaq kaaddheeai sad hi rahai samaaey.

It is not love if one gets attracted elsewhere. True love is forever- through thick and thin.

 

Changey changa kar maney mandai manda hoey. Aasaq ih na aakheeai ji leykha vartai soey. M: 2, p 474.

One who is happy in good times but not in adversity; one who is love for benefits, is not in true love.

 

Nanak gaali koorreeaa baajh preet karey. Tichar jaanai bhala kar jichar leyvai dey. M: 1, p 594.

Relationships without mutual affection are false. In these, one considers a relationship good only as long as s/he received benefits and the other gives.

 

Husband wife relationship.

Dhan pir ih na akkheeai bahan ikatthey hoey. Eyk jot duey moorti, dhan pir kaheeai soey.

Wife and husband are not those who live together. When the two bodies have one soul, i.e. are spiritually united, then they are truly husband and wife.

 

Dhan pir ka ik hi sang vaasa vich haumai bheet karaari. Gur poorai haumai bheet tori jan Nanak miley banvaari. M; 4, p 1262.

Wife and husband live together, but have a strong wall of ego between. When the true guru breaks this wall, then the wife meets the husband.

 

Note: This is an analogy for relationship between the soul and the Almighty.

 

Employment.

Chaakar lagai chaakri jey chalai khasmai khasmai bhaaey. Hurmat tis no agli oh vajahu bhi doona khaaey. M: 1, p 474

One who takes an employment should act by the employer’s directions. Then s/he gets great regard, and higher compensation.

 

Ih kineyhi chaakri jit bhau khasam na jaaey.

Why take a job, – if one is not do it well -, and be afraid of the master?.

 

Nanak seyvak kaaddheeai jey seyti khasam samaaey. M: 2, 475

A good employee is one who merges his/her aim with that of the employer.

 

Pretentions.

Jey rat lagai  kaprrai jaama hoey pleet. If blood stains a garment, it becomes defiled.

 

Jo rat peevai maansa tin kiau nirmal cheet. M: 1. P 140.

How can those who drink human blood, i.e. exploit the gullible, be pure at heart? This applies to the clergy or employers who exploit simple people.

 

Interpersonal relations.

Jis andar taat praaee hovai tis da kadey na hovi bhalaa. M: 4, p 308.

No good happens to a person who has antipathy to others.

 

Jab dhaarai koee bairi meet. Tab lag nihchal naahi cheet. M: 4, 278.

As long as one treats some as friends and some as foes, i.e. gets into conflicts, until then the mind is not at peace.

 

Nanak phikey boleeai tan man phikaa hoey. Phiko phikaa sadeeai phikai phiki soey. M: 1, p 473

Says Guru Nanak: One who speaks arrogantly, his body and mind become insipid, i.e. she cannot enjoy peace.

 

Inter-religion relations.

When Guru Nanak looked around and found turmoil, he lamented:

 

Nanak duneeaa kaisi hoee; saalak mit na rahio koee. Bhaaee bandhi heyt chukaaiaa. Duneeaa kaaran-i deen gavaaiaa. M: 1, p 1410

 

How has the world become? There is no guide or friend left. Love between siblings and between relatives has gone. People have forsaken Divine commands for transitory material gains and pleasures.

 

He attributed it to people forgetting two universal truths. God, whose commands apply forever, and death, which is an inevitable event.

 

Kaal naahi jog naahi naahi sat ka ddhab. Thaanastt jag bhrastt hoey ddoobta iv jag. M:1, p 662.

People are not conscious of death, or God; no one follows the path of truth, i.e. people neglect obeying Hukam/Divine commands.

Places of worship have been corrupted; that is how the world is sinking in evil ways.

 

Gurbani and science.

People consider religion and science as two different and conflicting worlds. Their perception is that religion is only dogmas and superstitions while science is logical. A little thought would show that this is misplaced.

 

Science is study of natural phenomena, observing patterns in them and deducing laws of nature. The scientists give them names like law of gravity. Science does not make the laws; the Creator has made them and religion calls them Hukam or Divine commands. Science also does not believe to have found the ultimate truth about anything. Religion and science both believe that we can never know what all the Creator has made.

 

Religion or spiritualty is concerned with cosmology. The latter covers study of structure of the universe, how it came into being and the place of human beings in it.

 

Science has not been able to come to any conclusion on this. For example, there are wide variations in estimation of when the creation came into being, from thousands to billions of years. Guru Nanak says in Japji Paurri 21 that no one except the Creator can know when creation came into being. Everyone tries to be wiser than the other.

 

As for the process of creation, the scientists have been struggling. They have serially attributed it to accident, evolution and the Big Bang theory.

 

Guru Nanak gave the following logical sequence of creation five centuries back.

 

Aapeenai aap saajio aapeenai rachio naau; duee kudrat-i saajeeai kar-i aasan ddittho chaau. M: 1.p 463.

 

Initially, the Creator created the self, next made Naam/cosmic laws; then created the universe and fondly watches it, i.e. everything conforms to laws of nature.

 

This first stage created the galaxies, solar systems and planets, but not the creatures

 

The creatures need air, water and food for sustenance; these were provided for before the creatures came into being. This is how.

 

Saachey tey pavna bhaiaa, pavnai tey jal-u hoey jal tey tribhavan saajiaa ghatt-i ghatt-i jot-i samoey. M: 1, p 19.

From the Creator came air, and from air/gases formed water and the world was carved with water – and clay; the Divine Spirit is present in every being.

 

Fifth Nanak says

 

Pahlo dey tai’n rijak samaaha; pichhah-u dey tai’n jant-u upaahaa;

You first created the wherewithal and later the creature.

 

Tudh-u jeyvadd-u daataa avar-u na suaami lavai na koee laavniaa. M: 5, p 130.

 There is none as great a benefactor as You; none comes near, o Master.

 

The creatures were created next.

 

Nanak jeea upaaeykai likh naavai dharam bahaaliaa; othai sachey hi sach nibrrai chun vakh kadhey jajmaaliaa. M: 1, p 463.

 

The creatures were created with their roles laid down; the metaphoric judge Dharam Rai is tasked to watch their deeds and make them accountable; in this system only those conforming to truth, i.e. Divine commands, withstand scrutiny, others fail, and cannot attain union with the Creator i.e. be at peace.

 

Regarding the place of humans in creation,

The Shabad in Raga Aasa, and Japji Paurri 27, starting with Sodar teyra keyha, says the whole universe exists in harmony like components of a music group. There are musical instruments, their players and singers who perform as one composite group. It asks all creatures to conform to Hukam.

 

Japji Pauri 34 says that the earth with its creatures exists as part of the system and act accordingly:

 

Raati ruti thiti vaar; paun paani agni paataal; tis vich dharti thhap rakhi dharamsaal.

 

Days and nights, the lunar cycle, days of the week. Water, air, fire/energy and land. Having provided these, the Creator established the earth for the creatures to carry out their duties.

 

Tis vich jeea jugat key rang; tin key naam aneyk anant.

There are numerous life forms with their roles allotted.

The laws of nature govern all these provisions, and the creatures must conform to them.

 

How to identify the true guru

Noting that personalities, not fundamentals of religions are responsible for intra-faith conflicts, Gurbani does not glorify any person. It only glorifies the Formless Creator, the institution of the guru, the seekers, and the holy congregation. And, that conformance to Naam is the means to get peace. It does not glorify any personality.

 

The guru is not glorified as a person, but as an institution. Guru Nanak says about the guru. This is how the true guru is recognised.

 

Nanak satigur aisa jaaneeai jo sabhsai laey milaaey jeeo. M: 1, p 71.

The true guru is one who brings everyone together.

 

Jis miliai man hoey anand so satigur kaheeai. Man ki dubidha jaaey har param pad laheeai. M: 4, p 168.

The guru is one in whose company we experience bliss. Duality of the mind is dissolved, and the exalted state of Divine experience attained.

 

Guru Nanak calls himself the lowest amongst the lowly.

 

Neechaa andar neech jaat neechi hoo ati neech. Nanak tin kai sang saath vaddiaa sio kia rees. Jithat neech samaaleean tithai nadar teyri bakhsees.

I am the lowest amongst the lowly; I would rather be in their company and not imitate the high and rich. For, Divine grace is bestowed where the lowly are looked after.

 

About his faith, he says:

 

Ham nahi changey buraa nahi koey. Pranvat Nanak taarey soey. M: 1, p 728.

We are not good, and none is bad. Let us glorify the Almighty who alone can save us.

 

Humility is a great virtue and in eulogised in Gurbani for the spiritual experience.

 

God is present everywhere.

Guru Nanak also found that people thought God was present at some sacred place. The Hindus consider God resides at Jagannath Puri, literally meaning the town of God, and the Muslims at the Kaaba at Mecca considering it God’s abode. The Jews, Christians and Muslims call Jerusalem the holy land, and fights over it are continuing even now.

 

Earlier scriptures show access to God was available to selected persons and at specific places. Many important places of Hindu worship like Amarnath and Badrinath are on mountains. Moses went to Mount Sinai to talk to God. Jesus went to Mount Olive to deliver his Sermon on the Mount and to pray. Prophet Muhammad received God’s messages through Jabraeel, also called Gabriel, in a cave on Mount Hira.

 

Guru Nanak emphasised that there is One Creator of the whole universe who is present everywhere and inside everyone. He teaches.

 

Man mandar tan veys kalandar ghatt hi teerath nhaava. Eyk sabad merey praan bast hai bahurr janam na aava.

The mind is the temple, the body the seeker. Teerath, the holy place for bath is within. I keep Divine Word/commands in my mind so as not to be reborn.

 

Agam agochar alakh apaara chinta karhu hamaari.

O Almighty, You are beyond reach of intellect/comprehension, not reached by the sensory organs, Formless and Infinite; You take care of us creatures.

 

Jal thal maheeal bharpur leena ghatt ghatt jot tumhaari. M: 1, p 795.

You are present in water, on/in land, in space; Your light/Spirit is present in every creature.

 

Otherwise

Andrahu jhootthey paij baahar dunee andar phail. Atth satth teerath jey nhaavai utrai naahi mail.

Those who have deceit within but display goodness outwardly. The dirt of vices cannot be removed, i.e. the mind is not purified even if one bathes at sixty-eight holy places.

 

Guru Nanak shows how to overcome these impediments.

 

Ghar hi mundh videys pir, nit jhoorey samaaley. Mildiaa ddhil na hovaee ji neat raas karey. M: 1, p 594.

 

The Almighty-husband is at home, i.e. within, but the soul-wife thinks he is away and feels sad thinking of the separation, i.e. the Almighty is within but one feels separated and thinks how to find within.

Says Guru Nanak. It takes no time to find if s/he transforms her intention, i.e. stops acting by self-will and obeys Divine commands.

 

The Sufi saint Bulhey Shah expresses this thus:

 

Jey rab jugle bhaudiaa milda ta milda gaaeeaa majheeaa. Jey rab paani dhotia milda ta milda magra machheeaa.

Bulhey Shah rab tina no milda, jinaa neeata hachheeaa.

If one could find God by wandering in jungles, then cows and buffalos would find. If one could find God by taking baths, then crocodiles and fish would find.

O Bulhey Shah, those with clean intention/mind i.e. free of ego, find God.

 

God’s message to humanity.

Pahla maran kabool jeevan ki chhadd aas; hohu sabhna ki reynuka tau aaau hamaarey paas. M: 5, p 1102.

First accept to die and give up hope to live, i.e. kill ego. Be humble to all, then you will come to me.

 

Sheikh Farid also conveys message from God.

 

Aap savaarey mai miley mai miliaa sukh hoey; Farida jey too meyra hoey rahey sabh jag teyra hoey. 95. Farid, p 1382.

 

You will find Me if you transform yourself; your search will end and you will be at peace once you find me. How?

If you be mine, the whole world will be your friends, o Farid.

 

Conclusion.

People can be at peace individually and collectively by prising Divine virtues and obeying Divine commands.

 

Chhaati seetal man sukhi chhant gobind gun gaaey. Aisi kirpa karhu prabh Nanak daas dasaaey. M: 5, p 254.

The chest is cooled, i.e. anxieties leave, and the mind is at peace, of one who sings and emulates virtues of the Almighty; O Almighty, please bestow grace that I be servant of Your servants, i.e. follow those who live in obedience to You. Make me humble.

 

 

The Financial Crisis and Gurbani

The global financial system is currently in turmoil. Some one overwhelmed by the situation asked a question:

“What are down-to-earth answers drawn from Gurbani to help people tackling this world financial crisis; in pragmatic terms is it possible to create a counseling service based on Gurbani, the Guru’s words”?

Another person who heard this question thought the questioner was being humorous because Gurbani cannot be dealing with such mundane matters. The fact however is that while Gurbani is not a study of management practices specifically it is a complete guide on almost all aspects of life. It gives some practical guidelines to mange finances both on long term and short term basis for individuals as well as for organizations.

Gurbani identifies ‘Arth’, which means ‘economic well-being’ as one the three fundamental criteria for a successful life. The other two are ‘Dharam’ or ‘dutifulness’ which means doing one’s duties sincerely, and ‘Kaam’ or fulfillment of desires and aspirations. There is also the fourth criterion of ‘Mokh’ or ‘Mukti’ i.e. release from bondage of evil and ultimately from the cycles of reincarnation by way of the soul merging in God. All these criteria are to be satisfied being a part of the society and not in self-interest alone. Efforts for personal economic well-being are therefore to form part of one’s contribution towards development for the benefit of the society.

One can work towards economic well-being either by taking a job or being self employed in a profession of one’s choice. Self employment avenues are identified in agriculture, industry and business or trade. In all cases man (or woman) is motivated to work in righteousness.

As may be expected many of the teachings are through metaphorswhereby mundane ideas understood in every day life are applied to spirituality. For example telling the farmer that to get a good crop, he must ensure that the seed is good (whole, not split) and is sowed in the right season, also means that for spiritual success one must shed duality and have the right state of mind. Similarly when the dyer is advised that a raw fabric must be bleached before it is dyed it also implies that without getting rid of the evil thoughts and having faith one cannot expect to be imbued with spirituality. Guru Nanak says:

ਜੇ ਇਕੁ ਹੋਇ ਤ ਉਗਵੈ ਰੁਤੀ ਹੂ ਰੁਤਿ ਹੋਇ ਨਾਨਕ ਪਾਹੈ ਬਾਹਰਾ ਕੋਰੈ ਰੰਗੁ ਨ ਸੋਇ ਭੈ ਵਿਚਿ ਖੁੰਬਿ ਚੜਾਈਐ ਸਰਮੁ ਪਾਹੁ ਤਨਿ ਹੋਇ ਨਾਨਕ ਭਗਤੀ ਜੇ ਰਪੈ ਕੂੜੈ ਸੋਇ ਨ ਕੋਇ ੧੪੬੮

A seed can blossom when it is whole and is sowed in the right season; a raw fabric cannot be dyed without being bleached; condition the mind with obedience to laws of nature and hard work; now dye the mind with devotion and the color will be lasting (M: 1, SGGS, p 468).

Unless the farmer and the dyer follow the correct procedures their investments and efforts will not be profitable.

Another very important teaching is to follow the laws of the land in order not to be found guilty of misdemeanor resulting in loss or punishment. Guru Nanak says that one who is honest and clean in business dealings never suffers loss.

ਲਾਹਾ ਸਾਚੁ ਨ ਆਵੈ ਤੋਟਾ ਤ੍ਰਿਭਵਣ ਠਾਕੁਰੁ ਪ੍ਰੀਤਮੁ ਮੋਟਾ ੨੮੧ ੯੩੩

If we aim at honest profits there will never be loss;

the laws of the master of the universe (and the land) are powerful (M: 1, SGGS, p 933).

As further elaboration of this, if one’s dealings are clean, there is no fear of loss or need to ciecumvent any thing:

ਸਚਾ ਸਉਦਾ ਸਚੁ ਵਾਪਾਰਾ ਨ ਤਿਥੈ ਭਰਮੁ ਨ ਦੂਜਾ ਪਸਾਰਾ

ਸਚਾ ਧਨੁ ਖਟਿਆ ਕਦੇ ਤੋਟਿ ਨ ਆਵੈ ਬੂਝੈ ਕੋ ਵੀਚਾਰੀ ਹੇ ੩੧੦੫੦

Have genuine merchandise and clean dealings; there will then be no doubt or extraneous considerations;

a discerning person knows that there can be no los when money is earned honestly (M: 3, SGGS, p 1050).

The ultimate test of merchandise being acceptable is the liking of the customers. They say in business buyer is the king:

ਵਣਜੁ ਕਰਹੁ ਵਣਜਾਰਿਹੋ ਵਖਰੁ ਲੇਹੁ ਸਮਾਲਿਤੈਸੀ ਵਸਤੁ ਵਿਸਾਹੀਐ ਜੈਸੀ ਨਿਬਹੈ ਨਾਲਿ

ਅਗੈ ਸਾਹੁ ਸੁਜਾਣੁ ਹੈ ਲੈਸੀ ਵਸਤੁ ਸਮਾਲਿ੨੨

A business man should ensure the quality of the merchandise; choose only such merchandise that will last (be in demand for long); the king (buyer) is wise, he will then accept the merchandise (M: 1, SGS, p 22).

All merchandise is not accepted by all; expensive items like jewels or high quality goods will fetch the correct value only from those who understand them and have the resources to purchase them:

ਰਤਨਾ ਪਾਰਖੁ ਜੋ ਹੋਵੈ ਸੁ ਰਤਨਾ ਕਰੇ ਵੀਚਾਰੁ ਰਤਨਾ ਸਾਰ ਨ ਜਾਣਈ ਅਗਿਆਨੀ ਅੰਧੁ ਅੰਧਾਰੁ੩੫੮੯

Only one who understands jewels can evaluate them; an ignorant person does not know their value (M: 3, SGGS, p 589).

This envisages that demand evaluation should determine the type of merchandise to be marketed.

There is water under and on the earth but the plants and crops wither if not watered. Similarly God abides within us but if the soul does not refresh itself through remembering and emulating Divine virtues it also withers. Using this metaphor Gurbani says that a miser hoards money but by not putting it to use himself lives in a wretched state. Money should therefore be put to use and not just kept stashed somewhere:

ਗੋਬਿਦ ਭਜਨ ਬਿਨੁ ਬ੍ਰਿਥੇ ਸਭ ਕਾਮ ਜਿਉ ਕਿਰਪਨ ਕੇ ਨਿਰਾਰਥ ਦਾਮ ੫੨੬੯

The soul achieves nothing without remembering the Master, the way nothing is achieved by a miser’s money (M: 5, SGGS, p 269).

Too little or too much money is a cause for worry. One should work to earn enough for now and the future but not hoard it. Running after money creates more craving and one is never satiated:

ਜਿਸੁ ਗ੍ਰਿਹਿ ਬਹੁਤੁ ਤਿਸੈ ਗ੍ਰਿਹਿ ਚਿੰਤਾ ਜਿਸੁ ਗ੍ਰਿਹਿ ਥੋਰੀ ਸੁ ਫਿਰੈ ਭ੍ਰਮੰਤਾ

ਦੁਹੂ ਬਿਵਸਥਾ ਤੇ ਜੋ ਮੁਕਤਾ ਸੋਈ ਸੁਹੇਲਾ ਭਾਲੀਐ ੫੧੦੧੯

One who has excessive wealth worries about its security; one who is short of money runs around to get it; one who is outside these two states is happy (M: 3, SGGS, p 1019).

ਸਹਸ ਖਟੇ ਲਖ ਕਉ ਉਠਿ ਧਾਵੈ ਤ੍ਰਿਪਤਿ ਨ ਆਵੈ ਮਾਇਆ ਪਾਛੈ ਪਾਵੈ

ਅਨਿਕ ਭੋਗ ਬਿਖਿਆ ਕੇ ਕਰੈ ਨਹ ਤ੍ਰਿਪਤਾਵੈ ਖਪਿ ਖਪਿ ਮਰੈ

ਬਿਨਾ ਸੰਤੋਖ ਨਹੀ ਕੋਊ ਰਾਜੈਸੁਪਨ ਮਨੋਰਥ ਬ੍ਰਿਥੇ ਸਭ ਕਾਜੈ ੫੨੭੮

When man has earned thousands he runs after millions;

there is no satisfaction when one chases wealth;

with money man indulges in vices but gets no satisfaction and wears himself out;

because no one who lacks contentment can be satisfied;

(one must not keep running after money because)

life is transitory like the experience in a dream (M: 5, SGS, p 278).

Some people will say that with this attitude there will hardly be any development. That is not true because development is not only for the present but also for the future. Man should realize that what he inherited was due to the efforts of his predecessors and he should work for the generations to come. It should also be noted that wealth is created with the efforts of a lot of people at different levels. It would therefore be unjust if the work force is not appropriately compensated and the owners keep pocketing most of the wealth. This results in agitations, strikes or shut downs with adverse effects. It is also a fact that wealth does not accompany one on death but is left behind. The fifth Guru says:

ਕਰਿ ਅਨਰਥ ਦਰਬੁ ਸੰਚਿਆ ਸੋ ਕਾਰਜਿ ਕੇਤੁ ਜੈਸਾ ਬੀਜੈ ਸੋ ਲੁਣੈ ਕਰਮ ਇਹੁ ਖੇਤੁ ੫੭੦੬

What good is wealth earned through unfair actions;

remember life is the field of deeds, one reaps as one sows (M:5, SGGS, p 706).

It may be argued that man earns money and leaves for his progeny. That is right but the curses by those unjustly deprived of their rights will also affect those who receive this money and ultimately those mortals also will depart empty handed:

ਲੈਦਾ ਬਦ ਦੁਆਇ ਤੂੰ ਮਾਇਆ ਕਰਹਿ ਇਕਤ ਜਿਸ ਨੋ ਤੂੰ ਪਤੀਆਇਦਾ ਸੋ ਸਣੁ ਤੁਝੈ ਅਨਿਤ ੫੪੨

You receive curses when you gather wealth unjustly; your family members for whose benefit you do this will, like you, also not last for ever (M: 5, SGGS, p 42).

One of the major problems being faced in the world today is trying to live beyond available resources. This has resulted in huge deficit financing by governments and individual debts. These cause unnecessary worries and stress. It is therefore important that budgets are kept balanced at all levels; Gurbani advises:

ਜੇ ਕੋਊ ਅਪੁਨੀ ਓਟ ਸਮਾਰੈ

ਜੈਸਾ ਬਿਤੁ ਤੈਸਾ ਹੋਇ ਵਰਤੈ ਅਪੁਨਾ ਬਲੁ ਨਹ ਹਾਰੈ ਰਹਾਉ ੫ ੬੭੯

One who knowss his financial strength, and uses the resources according to availability, does not suffer :Pause: (M: 5, SGGS, p 679).

As an extrapolation, it also means that when expecting financial support from some one or looking for a job it should be seen if the concerned benefactor will be able meet your aspirations based on his financial position. Any expectation beyond that may cause embarrassment.

Sheikh Farid puts it this way:

ਫਰੀਦਾ ਜੇ ਜਾਣਾ ਤਿਲ ਥੋੜੜੇ ਸੰਮਲਿ ਬੁਕੁ ਭਰੀ ਫ ੧੩੭੮

When I know that the kitty is limited I should be careful when taking out (Farid, SGGS, p 1378).

This also applies when making investments. In this regard investments using borrowed money are risky because it may happen, as it some times does, that the interest keeps building and at the same time the capital goes down. Bhagat Kabir says:

ਮੋਹਿ ਐਸੇ ਬਨਜ ਸਿਉ ਨਹੀਨ ਕਾਜੁ ਜਿਹ ਘਟੈ ਮੂਲੁ ਨਿਤ ਬਢੈ ਬਿਆਜੁ ਰਹਾਉ ਕ ੧੧੯੫

I will have nothing to do with a business in which the capital keeps reducingwhile the interest on borrowed funds keeps rising (Kabir, SGGS, p 1195).

When one takes a job it should be kept in mind that at work personal choices are to be subordinated and supremacy of the employer accepted. If this is followed the employee is liked by the boss and also rewarded financially, if not he suffers:

ਚਾਕਰੁ ਲਗੈ ਚਾਕਰੀ ਜੇ ਚਲੈ ਖਸਮੈ ਭਾਇ

ਹੁਰਮਤਿ ਤਿਸ ਨੋ ਅਗਲੀ ਓਹੁ ਵਜਹੁ ਭਿ ਦੂਣਾ ਖਾਇ

ਖਸਮੈ ਕਰੇ ਬਰਾਬਰੀ ਫਿਰਿ ਗੈਰਤਿ ਅੰਦਰਿ ਪਾਇ

ਵਜਹੁ ਗਵਾਏ ਅਗਲਾ ਮੁਹੇ ਮੁਹਿ ਪਾਣਾ ਖਾਇ

ਜਿਸ ਦਾ ਦਿਤਾ ਖਾਵਣਾ ਤਿਸੁ ਕਹੀਐ ਸਾਬਾਸਿ

ਨਾਨਕ ਹੁਕਮੁ ਨ ਚਲਈ ਨਾਲਿ ਖਸਮ ਚਲੈ ਅਰਦਾਸਿ ੨੨ ੨੪੭੪

If an employee works according to the employer’s directions,

he receives recognition and better compensation;

if he shows arrogance and shows to be equal to the boss he will be sorry;

he will lose compensation and be punished.

One who provides the source of livelihood should be acknowledged

(M: 1, SGGS, p 474).

Gurbani cautions against speculation or gambling for making money. It is best to evaluate the investment avenues based on merit. A speculator or gambler ultimately goes empty handed. Bhagat Kabir says:

ਕਹਿ ਕਬੀਰ ਕਿਛੁ ਗੁਨੁ ਬੀਚਾਰਿ ਚਲੇ ਜੁਆਰੀ ਦੁਇ ਹਥ ਝਾਰਿ ਕਬੀਰ੧੧੫੮/੩

Always go by merit; the gambler leaves with both hands empty (Kabir, SGGS, p 1158).

All in all Gurbani asks people to play by the rules and plan business and expenses wisely.

Faith and Discernment – Sidak and Bibayk

Faith and discernment or reasoning are two valuable virtues. However if they are treated in two exclusive compartments they can become pitfalls. For example faith alone may lead to the belief that one’s religion is the only one or the best. This is used by some as the basis to criticize or even slander other faiths and seek conversions.
The followers of different religions try to show that their God is different or that God likes their religion more. The following examples demonstrate this:
1. The Old Testament quotes God saying to Israel (the Jews): “I shall take you to me for a people, and I will be to you a God: and ye shall know that I am the Lord your God, which bringeth you out from under the burdens of the Egyptians” (Exodus 6:7, King James Version). This made God exclusive to the Jews who consider themselves the chosen ones.
2. God in the New Testament is the God of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob (Matthew 20:32, KJV).
3. The Quran says “Surely the religion with Allah is Islam” (3:19). The actual meaning of Islam is surrender to the will of God. So any one who does this is acceptable to God but Islam has come to be known as the religion of the Muslims alone.
The Quran itself removes any misgivings in this regard thus:
“Those who believe in God and the last day and do good deeds whether they are Muslims, Jews, Sabians or Christians; they shall have no fear nor shall they grieve on judgment day” (5:69).
It is therefore not the scriptures that divide people on the basis of religion but those who interpret them. Such distinctions have been the cause for much bloodshed in the name of religion.
Faith is so misunderstood that those who do wrong things like killings in the name of religion come to be called fundamentalists whereas it is the fundamentals of their faith that they do not follow. They act in ego derived from the belief that they know what is right. The fundamental virtue of humility taught by all religions is forgotten. It is also experienced that intolerance is almost invariably associated with religiosity or rather assumed religiosity. These are not acceptable to men and women in the modern age of education.
Followers of some religions observe certain rituals and superstitions. They may not be able to explain their significance but those having deep faith do not question them. However the educated people want to know.
Disenchantment with rituals and superstitions leads some people away from religion altogether. They call themselves rationalists or atheists. For them religion is all superstition. They believe they can decide by reason what is right. So instead of having faith in the teachings of a scripture they believe in themselves. This then becomes their religion without saying so. There is also a major pitfall in this belief of the self. When at cross-roads for a decision one is likely to follow a course that is beneficial to one who makes that decision but may not necessarily be moral or ethical. Reason is thus lost and self-interest prevails. Humility therefore becomes a victim here too.
We can therefore see that the common factor in both cases is ego or self importance. This is at the root of all evil.
We have identified three problems above, namely:
1. Criticizing other faiths with accompanying problems.
2. Superstitions and rituals leading to disenchantment with religion.
3. Those giving up religion and trying to live based on reason and rationalism have no authentic source to fall back upon for guidance.
So what is the solution? The way to do it is to satisfy human inquisitiveness either with appropriate answers; or still better by having a faith system such that such questions are not asked. The prescription seems to be leading a life –
A) of practical religiosity;
B) of rationalism bereft of superstitions and rituals;
C) that embraces universally accepted moral and ethical values.
This seems a tall order. No, this is what Sri Guru Granth Sahib (SGGS) the Sikh scripture provides for.
It says all evil is caused by man (Or woman) believing “I can know by myself what is right; I do not need any religious teachings for this”.
ਬੁਰਾ ਭਲਾ ਕਿਛੁ ਆਪਸ ਤੇ ਜਾਨਿਆ ਏਈ ਸਗਲ ਵਿਕਾਰਾ ॥ ੩ ੯੯੩
The thought that I know what is good or bad is at the root of all evil (M: 3, SGGS, p 993).
In connection with criticism of others it needs to be appreciated that whatever we call good or bad exists accoding to Divine plan. Accepting everything as the will of God is an important part of Gurmat, the Gurus’ teachings. We are often tempted to say that one must always expose what is wrong. That is right but it should be evaluated if we are doing it with a missionary zeal or out of ego. A simple test for that is to ask ourselves if we do not suffer from the same affliction. We may then come to the conclusion which Guru Nanak intended. He says:
ਨਾ ਹਮ ਚੰਗੇ ਆਖੀਅਹ ਬੁਰਾ ਨ ਦਿਸੈ ਕੋਇ ॥ ਨਾਨਕ ਹਉਮੈ ਮਾਰੀਐ ਸਚੇ ਜੇਹੜਾ ਸੋਇ ॥੮॥੨॥੧੦॥ ੧ ੧੦੧੫
I do not call myself good, and see none else as bad; if we kill our ego we shall look at things as the eternal Master does; we shall then become like Him (M: 1, SGGS, p 1015).
If the answer is that it is only to criticize one should hold back.
We should look at the relationship of men and women of all religions with God with an open mind. There is only one universe wherein life exists. All religions believe that God created the universe; since there is only one universe there should be, and indeed is, one God. Any distinction in the concept of God between religions is thus misplaced. All creatures belong to the same God who does not discriminate on the basis of religion. We are all His children:
ਏਕੁ ਪਿਤਾ ਏਕਸ ਕੇ ਹਮ ਬਾਰਿਕ ਤੂ ਮੇਰਾ ਗੁਰ ਹਾਈ ॥ ੫ ੬੧੧-੧੨
One father we are all His children (M: 5, SGGS, p 611-12).
To those who love their religion and think that God approves only their faith Bhagat Ravi Das says:
ਆਪਨ ਬਾਪੈ ਨਾਹੀ ਕਿਸੀ ਕੋ ਭਾਵਨ ਕੋ ਹਰਿ ਰਾਜਾ ॥ ਮੋਹ ਪਟਲ ਸਭੁ ਜਗਤੁ ਬਿਆਪਿਓ ਭਗਤ ਨਹੀ ਸੰਤਾਪਾ ॥੩॥ ਰ ੬੫੮
God does not belong to any person or group, the Master likes love; the world is caught in worldly attachments but these do not worry God’s devotee (Ravi Das, SGGS, p 658).
So thought of any distinction on the basis of religion would result in losing one’s link to God. Seeing this happening Guru Nanak wonders:
ਨਾਨਕ ਦੁਨੀਆ ਕੈਸੀ ਹੋਈ ॥ ਸਾਲਕੁ ਮਿਤੁ ਨ ਰਹਿਓ ਕੋਈ ॥ ਭਾਈ ਬੰਧੀ ਹੇਤੁ ਚੁਕਾਇਆ ॥ ਦੁਨੀਆ ਕਾਰਣਿ ਦੀਨੁ ਗਵਾਇਆ ॥੫॥ ੧ ੧੪੧੦
What has happened to this world? There is no guide and friend; love between siblings and relatives has gone; for the sake of the worldly ego people have lost their connection to God (M: 1, SGGS, p 1410).
In order to re-establish the link with God one must acknowledge the unity of creation and to live by Divine will:
ਤੂ ਸਭਨਾ ਕਾ ਸਭੁ ਕੋ ਤੇਰਾ ॥ ਸਾਚੇ ਸਾਹਿਬ ਗਹਿਰ ਗੰਭੀਰਾ ॥ ਕਹੁ ਨਾਨਕ ਸੇਈ ਜਨ ਊਤਮ ਜੋ ਭਾਵਹਿ ਸੁਆਮੀ ਤੁਮ ਮਨਾ ॥੧੬॥੧॥੮॥ ੫ ੧੦੭੯-੮੦
You belong to all and all are Yours O profound eternal Lord; only those are good who are liked by You (M: 5, SGGS, p 1079-80).
Those who submit to the will of God are liked by Him. The third Guru says:
ਜੋ ਤੁਧੁ ਕਰਣਾ ਸੋ ਕਰਿ ਪਾਇਆ ॥ ਭਾਣੇ ਵਿਚਿ ਕੋ ਵਿਰਲਾ ਆਇਆ ॥ ਭਾਣਾ ਮੰਨੇ ਸੋ ਸੁਖੁ ਪਾਏ ਭਾਣੇ ਵਿਚਿ ਸੁਖੁ ਪਾਇਦਾ ॥੧॥ ੩ ੧੦੬੩
Whatever You will is done O Lord, only a rare one accepts Your will; one who does receives comfort, for comfort is subject to Your will (M: 3, SGGS, p 1063).
The human mindset therefore needs to to be changed for one to be acceptable to God. The Divine message is:
ਆਪੁ ਸਵਾਰਹਿ ਮੈ ਮਿਲਹਿ ਮੈ ਮਿਲਿਆ ਸੁਖੁ ਹੋਇ ॥ ਫਰੀਦਾ ਜੇ ਤੂ ਮੇਰਾ ਹੋਇ ਰਹਹਿ ਸਭੁ ਜਗੁ ਤੇਰਾ ਹੋਇ ॥੯੫॥ ਫ ੧੩੮੨
If you reform yourself you will meet me and find comfort: If you be mine the whole world will be yours (Farid, SGGS, p 1382).
Guru Arjan has a simple prescription that will result in one looking at all creation as friends:
ਮਨ ਅਪੁਨੇ ਤੇ ਬੁਰਾ ਮਿਟਾਨਾ ॥ ਪੇਖੈ ਸਗਲ ਸ੍ਰਿਸਟਿ ਸਾਜਨਾ ॥ ੫ ੨੬੬
Shed evil from your mind and you will see whole universe as friends (M: 5, SGGS, p 266).
Observation of superstitions is a sign of feeling of insecurity. Some people consider the number 13 unlucky. To some, some days of the lunar cycle are auspicious and others inauspicious. In India if a black cat crosses one’s way it is unlucky and so on. There is no rationale to these but people are told they would suffer if if they do not follow them. Those who lack confidence believe in them. This in turn is due to the fear of being hauled up for not obeying the laws of nature i.e. Divine commands, called Hukam. At the mundane level it is not obeying the laws of the land. Those who believe in God follow the rules and experience a sense of security thus remaining free from fear. The fifth Guru says:
ਸਗੁਨ ਅਪਸਗੁਨ ਤਿਸ ਕਉ ਲਗਹਿ ਜਿਸੁ ਚੀਤਿ ਨ ਆਵੈ ॥ ਤਿਸੁ ਜਮੁ ਨੇੜਿ ਨ ਆਵਈ ਜੋ ਹਰਿ ਪ੍ਰਭਿ ਭਾਵੈ ॥੨॥ ੫ ੪੦੧
Good and bad omens are for those who do not remember God; even the messengers of death do not come near those who are liked by God (M: 5, SGGS, p 401).
Many people advocate observance of certain rituals like burning incenses before, or offering food for, idols of deities. There are also rituals of killing animals and birds to propitiate deities, some offer food to the priests in the hope that it will reach their ancestors. A discerning person wants the rationale behind these. The reason for rituals in majority of cases is to follow what others are doing; it is to go along with others. Those who engage in idol worship say they do so only to be able to concentrate, but it is a fact that idol worship keeps one in bondage and does not allow Divine experience. Gurbani emphasizes this point about rituals through a metaphor:
ਫਲ ਕਾਰਨ ਫੂਲੀ ਬਨਰਾਇ ॥ ਫਲੁ ਲਾਗਾ ਤਬ ਫੂਲੁ ਬਿਲਾਇ ॥ ਗਿਆਨੈ ਕਾਰਨ ਕਰਮ ਅਭਿਆਸੁ ॥ ਗਿਆਨੁ ਭਇਆ ਤਹ ਕਰਮਹ ਨਾਸੁ ॥੩॥ ਰ ੧੧੬੭
The fruit bearing plant first forms flowers; when the fruit forms the flower disappears; similarly one puts in efforts to gain knowledge, once knowledge is gained (through the guru) the need for ritualistic efforts ends ( Ravi Das, SGGS, p 1167).

Discernment presupposes possessing intellect which is a gift to the humans; other life forms do not have it. If this power of reasoning or discrimination is not used human birth is wasted:
ਦੁਲਭ ਜਨਮੁ ਪੁੰਨ ਫਲ ਪਾਇਓ ਬਿਰਥਾ ਜਾਤ ਅਬਿਬੇਕੈ ॥ ਰ ੬੫੮
Human birth is achieved with difficulty based on past good deeds; but is wasted if the sense of discrimination is not exercised (Ravi Das, SGGS, p 658).
Guru Nanak advises to use intellect in every sphere of life:
ਅਕਲੀ ਸਾਹਿਬੁ ਸੇਵੀਐ ਅਕਲੀ ਪਾਈਐ ਮਾਨੁ ॥ ਅਕਲੀ ਪੜ੍ਹ੍ਹਿ ਕੈ ਬੁਝੀਐ ਅਕਲੀ ਕੀਚੈ
ਦਾਨੁ ॥ ਨਾਨਕੁ ਆਖੈ ਰਾਹੁ ਏਹੁ ਹੋਰਿ ਗਲਾਂ ਸੈਤਾਨੁ ॥੧॥ ੧ ੧੨੪੫
We should serve the Lord wisely and receive honor before Him; wisdom should be used to understand what is read; charity should be given with discrimination; this is the way to go otherwise it is following the devil (M: 1, SGGS, p 1245).

A rationalist or an atheist would say that is what they also emphasize reason and discrimination so where is the need for religion?
Religion teaches the higher things of life; it teaches ethics; it teaches discipline. It is the religious scriptures that educate us on the purpose of human birth, God-to-man and man-to-man relationship. It is also well known that relief efforts in most cases of natural calamities are spearheaded by various religious organizations. Religion should not therefore be dispensed with but rather the essence of religious teachings should be understood on the lines taught by Gurbani.
Moral and ethical values may be encapsulated in one sentence:
ਸਚਹੁ ਓਰੈ ਸਭੁ ਕੋ ਉਪਰਿ ਸਚੁ ਆਚਾਰੁ ॥੫॥ ੧ ੬੨
Truth is higher than everything else but higher still is truthful living (M: 1, SGGS, p 62).

This calls for being true to one’s faith, one self, the family, the society, the country and the world.
This is faith with a discerning mind, the confluence of faith and reason.

My Guru and I – Some Experiences

My communication with my Guru started early. I was born at Kutbal a village about 29 miles from Rawalpindi in the Punjab province in undivided India. In that area there were many mixed families of Kesadharis and Sehjdharis. I was one whose hair had been cut. I do not distinctly remember what happened but when I was about five years old I asked my hair to be restored. I wanted to be Kesadhari and Ram Lal became Rawel Singh.

Shortly afterwards my grandfather died and on my request my parents who moved to another town left me with my grandmother. She was a highly religious lady living according to Sikh tenets and doing Nitnem regularly. She had the desired influence on me. When I was about eight years old I was formally introduced to reading Sri Guru Granth Sahib. This was called Charni Lagna literally meaning being at the feet of the Guru. I went back to my parents in Arifwala in Montgomery District after primary school for educational reasons. There I joined the Khalsa Bhujangi Sabha, an association of young Sikh children who under the guidance of elders used to present programs on Sikh History and religion on Gurpurabs and other occasions. This was a God-sent opportunity to get seriously involved in Sikh activities.

Our parents were meaningfully loving, giving what we needed and also ensuring we became good, successful human beings. They regularly recited the Japji Sahib in the morning.

India was divided into two parts on 15th August 1947. We stayed put at Arifwala, now in Pakistan, until we had to leave, at a few minutes notice, 11 days later, on foot. There was no time to gather belongings. We just left and walked for the next six days halting for nights. My father had only 300 rupees with him so when we reached re-demarcated India he left us near our relatives so that he could work to enable the family to live. I passed high school in 1949 and realizing that I was the eldest son started working to help the family. My father would have none of that. He told me that it was his responsibility to educate his children and for that he would live on channa (grams) if normal food could not be afforded. The grit that both our parents showed during the period was remarkable. This taught us how to face hardship and nothing has seemed hard since.

In 1950 when I was in the college hostel my father went on his first trip by sea. I was anxious about his safety. One night I woke up at 2 AM and went to the hostel gate. I found a telegram being delivered. I said it must be for me. It was from my father informing me of his safe arrival. It convinced me that when one thinks of a loved one sincerely communication gets established. I later connected my experience with the Tenth Guru’s teaching in the spiritual field:
ਸਾਚ ਕਹਉ ਸੁਨ ਲੇਹੁ ਸਬੈ ਜਿਨ ਪ੍ਰੇਮ ਕੀਉ ਤਿਨ ਹੀ ਪ੍ਰਭ ਪਾਇਓ ॥ ॥੯ ॥
Let all hear this truth ‘only through love can the Creator be reached’ (9th Swaiyya).

I was commissioned as an officer in the Indian army in June 1954. In the army there are regular programs for development and I did reasonably well in them. However on one such course in 1963, I found myself not doing well. This caused a lot of tension and I had to seek medical intervention. I was diagnosed ‘anxiety state’ and given tranquilizers. When coming back from the doctor I said to myself “You are the Guru’s Sikh; you do not need tranquilizers”. I put the medicine away and have not needed it since. I do not know what will happen in the future but as of now at the age approaching 76 years I am not on any regular medication. Being a Sikh I believe:
ਸਰਬ ਰੋਗ ਕਾ ਅਉਖਦੁ ਨਾਮੁ ॥ ਕਲਿਆਣ ਰੂਪ ਮੰਗਲ ਗੁਣ ਗਾਮ ॥ ੫ ੨੭੪
Naam is the treatment for all ailments; by singing Divine praises one is freed from afflictions and gets happiness (M: 5, SGGS, p 274).

I have found the Naam medicine to be amazingly effective. Because of past indiscretion in food and pain killers, my stomach bothers me at times mostly with acidity. One day in 1985 CE it was really bothersome. It was time for Rehras Sahib and I was motivated to use the Baani as medicine. The method adopted was to break the rhythm, utter every syllable distinctly and let it cause a vibration starting from the vocal chords and going down to the lower stomach thus involving the whole body. By the end of Ardas, acidity had almost completely disappeared. I tried the same method later for a loose stomach and it worked. This takes time but is so fruitful. It also helps in good sleep.

As a Lieutenant Colonel I was given the job of raising a large new army regiment in 1972. All new units have personnel drawn from different units who may not have worked with one another. There are therefore apprehension of lack of cohesiveness and uncertainty about the style of the new Commanding Officer. My experience had shown that in order to soothe the nerves nothing works better than to be able to worship according to one’s faith. All faiths must be respected. The third Guru prays:
ਜਗਤੁ ਜਲੰਦਾ ਰਖਿ ਲੈ ਆਪਣੀ ਕਿਰਪਾ ਧਾਰਿ ॥ ਜਿਤੁ ਦੁਆਰੈ ਉਬਰੈ ਤਿਤੈ ਲੈਹੁ ਉਬਾਰਿ ॥ ੩ ੮੫੩
The world is afire O Lord; save the people whatever it takes (M: 3, SGGS, p 853).

So arrangements were made for establishing a Hindu temple, a Christian chapel and a Sikh Gurdwara in the unit. This had a salutary effect in two ways. Firstly there were no serious cases of indiscipline because the men remained occupied in their spare time. Secondly because of lack of any distractions and friction, they applied themselves to training and the unit was declared ‘fit for war’ in the very first annual inspection.

In life there are stages when one desires children, position, money and good health. Gurbani says:
ਆਪੇ ਜਾਣੈ ਆਪੇ ਦੇਇ ॥ ਆਖਹਿ ਸਿ ਭਿ ਕੇਈ ਕੇਇ ॥ ੧ ੫
The Creator knows what is needed and gives; but those who acknowledge this are rare (Jap Ji, SGGS, p 5).

In spite of this teaching we get impatient, ask and are given. After our marriage my wife conceived once but it ended in miscarriage. After that she did not conceive for quite some time. There were suggestions for medical consultation but considering that she had conceived once we felt it was not necessary. After some time we offered Ardas and were blessed.

In service there is a system of selection for further promotion beyond the rank of major in the Army. One gets anxious when the selection board sits. I do not remember if I prayed for being approved but was certainly anxious. This anxiety vanished when I became conscious during recitation of Rehras Sahib:
ਤੂੰ ਕਰਤਾ ਸਚਿਆਰੁ ਮੈਡਾ ਸਾਂਈ ॥ ਜੋ ਤਉ ਭਾਵੈ ਸੋਈ ਥੀਸੀ ਜੋ ਤੂੰ ਦੇਹਿ ਸੋਈ ਹਉ ਪਾਈ ॥੧॥ ਰਹਾਉ ॥ ੪ ੧੧
You are just, my Creator and my Master; every thing happens at Your pleasure, I shall get (what I deserve and) You give (M: 4, SGGS, p 11).

The promotions kept coming until I was bypassed for promotion beyond the rank of Brigadier. I thought to myself and acknowledged that the system was fair.

It will be hypocritical to say that I have no wishes, but they somehow seem to get fulfilled on their own. I do not pray to get some thing but I do pray in Ardas for good health and Sahj, equipoise, as also before undertaking a long journey.

It has become a practice while travelling alone or with the family to recite the first five Pauris (stanzas) of, if the journey is short, and the whole of Jap Ji Sahib when it is long. The family sometimes wanted to skip it. Once when travelling from Alwar to New Delhi we stopped to refuel the car. After refilling I started the car but the steering wheel moved freely and the wheels wouldn’t turn. I got down only to find that the coupler from the steering column to the axle had disengaged because all the four bolts had fallen off. We had driven a good 300 kilometers without a mishap. This was providence at work. After doing the needful we moved again and my wife said let us recite Jap ji Sahib. There is no better way to learn than by experience.

In today’s world drinking is considered a social necessity in the West. It is generally not so in India now but when I was commissioned in 1954, the British influence was still there and I used to be almost the only one not drinking in any unit. I remained steadfast despite pressures and tried to live the Gurbani teaching of avoiding intoxicants. Friends including Generals who came to our place knew that there would be no alcohol served even in parties. It did not hurt me; instead I got plenty of respect.

In India there is considerable corruption and nothing seems to move without money. I have never been able to reconcile to this and decided that I will not be a party to the evil. I have therefore never used bribery to get things done. Whether it is getting a rail reservation at short notice, getting house plans sanctioned, getting permits for bricks or cement, electricity or water connection, getting occupancy certificate for the house or income tax assessments even for business; these have all been done by doggedly following them up despite delays but without getting frustrated. Ultimately such things have positive effect and one earns respect of others. When building our current house I had exceeded the laid down floor area and was advised to pay cash to escape high penalty. I decided to do the opposite and paid the high penalty by check. The word went round and whenever I went to the Housing Board office people there saluted me.

With the blessings and cooperation of every one around I took on the task of building a Gurdwara in our neighborhood since none existed. Some one suggested he knew the Chief Minister and could ask him to help. I advised against it on the principle of:
ਮਾਨੁਖ ਕੀ ਟੇਕ ਬ੍ਰਿਥੀ ਸਭ ਜਾਨੁ ॥ ਦੇਵਨ ਕਉ ਏਕੈ ਭਗਵਾਨੁ ॥ ੫ ੨੮੧
Support of another person is of no use; the Creator is the lone benefactor (M: 5, SGGS, p 281).
The allotment of land, the zoning plan, building plans, actual construction and completion certificate were not easy. But because of religious work and what is described above, the concerned officers were more than forthcoming.

Gurbani tells us that all relatives including the parents, spouse and children meet because of association in the previous birth:
ਮਾਤ ਪਿਤਾ ਬਨਿਤਾ ਸੁਤ ਬੰਧਪ ਇਸਟ ਮੀਤ ਅਰੁ ਭਾਈ ॥ ਪੂਰਬ ਜਨਮ ਕੇ ਮਿਲੇ ਸੰਜੋਗੀ ਅੰਤਹਿ ਕੋ ਨ ਸਹਾਈ ॥੧॥ ੫ ੭੦੦
The parents, spouse, children, relatives, dear ones, friends and siblings; they come together because of association in the past lif,e but cannot help at the end (M: 5, SGGS, p 700).

I was educated and an officer but I left the choice of my wife-to-be to my parents and coincidentally she did likewise to hers. We met each other months after our engagement. We got married in 1960 and it worked out fine. There used to be arguments but that should be expected. Religion, family values and faithfulness in marriage were strong bonding factors as have been the children. I made it a point to give full respect to my in-laws as did she.

My wife somehow contracted a rare lung disease and was hospitalized with no hope of recovery. Even in that state whenever the doctors enquired how she was, she said “I am alright”. On 27th September 2003 at about 4 AM her whole family was by her side as the doctors told us the end was near. I started the morning Nitnem at about 5 AM and at the end offered Ardas for the Nitnem and her. She was going. I kissed her good bye on the forehead; she rolled her eyes to look at every one and breathed her last at 6:05 AM.

On her death we inserted an obituary in newspapers saying “Complying with Divine command Mrs Harmohinder Anand passed away peacefully”. Apart from relatives and friends, we got a response among others from a Christian Pastor. He said he was sorry to hear of the loss and then went on to say that there is loneliness and sadness on death. He said Jesus could help the way he revived Lazarus. Thanking him I said we accepted God’s will and were in prayer, not sad. Also there is no loneliness when the Lord is the companion. I offered to discuss further but he never got back.

I have been doing Nitnem regularly. I am unable to eat breakfast and dinner until after the morning and evening Nitnem respectively. I was able to do this even during active war although there used to be delays. There are times when I am able to concentrate while on others it tends to get mechanical. My experience shows it is mostly due to the food at the previous meal or when something is on the mind. I try to overcome these but do not always succeed. In the Baanis that we recite I have found some points which help if one is attentive. A few examples:

In success I stop at:
ਸਭਿ ਗੁਣ ਤੇਰੇ ਮੈ ਨਾਹੀ ਕੋਇ ॥ ਵਿਣੁ ਗੁਣ ਕੀਤੇ ਭਗਤਿ ਨ ਹੋਇ ॥
O Lord all virtue is Yours, I have none; unless You grant me virtues I cannot engage in Bhagti, devotion (Jap Ji , SGGS, p 4).

If one can praise the Lord all treasure are received:
ਜਿਸ ਨੋ ਬਖਸੇ ਸਿਫਤਿ ਸਾਲਾਹ ॥ ਨਾਨਕ ਪਾਤਿਸਾਹੀ ਪਾਤਿਸਾਹੁ ॥੨੫॥
One who is granted the gift of Divine praise, is the king of kings (Jap Ji, SGGS, p 5).
In a state of conflict Jaap Sahib helps:
ਨਮੋ ਕਲਹ ਕਰਤਾ ॥ ਨਮੋ ਸਾਤ ਰੂਪੇ ॥ ੧੮੭ ॥
I pay obeisance to You O Lord, the creator of conflict but also the embodiment of peace (Jaap Sahib, 187).
At the end of Jaap Sahib
“ਸਦਾ ਅੰਗ ਸੰਗੇ ਅਭੰਗੰ ਬਿਭੂਤੇ” ॥ ੧੯੯ ॥
He is always by my side with unfading glory (Jaap Sahib, 199).
If said slowly one can feel the mind rejoicing being confident of Divine support.

At the end of Rehras Sahib:
ਨਾਨਕ ਨਾਮੁ ਮਿਲੈ ਤਾਂ ਜੀਵਾਂ ਤਨੁ ਮਨੁ ਥੀਵੈ ਹਰਿਆ ॥੧॥ ੫ ੧੪੨੯
When I am receptive to Naam, my body and mind bloom (M: 5, SGGS, p 1429).
One can feel the cooling effect in the whole body if this is said consciously.

These practices have been useful. The chase for comfort has been considerably lessened and feeling of discomfort reduced. My children often mock at me for sitting without a fan. Life seems to be a blessing. Quite often the hands involuntarily rise to be folded in thanksgiving. I like to take walks and many a time the feet just stop and the eyes look upwards expressing gratitude. This is how the fifth Guru describes this state:
ਕੀਮ ਨ ਸਕਾ ਪਾਇ ਸੁਖ ਮਿਤੀ ਹੂ ਬਾਹਰੇ ॥ ਨਾਨਕ ਸਾ ਵੇਲੜੀ ਪਰਵਾਣੁ ਜਿਤੁ ਮਿਲੰਦੜੋ ਮਾ ਪਿਰੀ ॥੨॥ ੫ ੭੦੯
I cannot put a value on the boundless comforts I have; that moment is worthwhile when I am with my Beloved (M: 5, SGGS, p 709).

When someone asks me about my welfare, the spontaneous reply is “there is plenty to thank God for”.

I have lived a full life and surely the time to depart is approaching. That is the law of nature. When it will be only the Creator knows. I can only say I am looking forward to it, not afraid. Kabir Ji says it is on death that the soul attains supreme bliss of merger with the Creator:
ਕਬੀਰ ਜਿਸੁ ਮਰਨੇ ਤੇ ਜਗੁ ਡਰੈ ਮੇਰੇ ਮਨਿ ਆਨੰਦੁ ॥ ਮਰਨੇ ਹੀ ਤੇ ਪਾਈਐ ਪੂਰਨੁ ਪਰਮਾਨੰਦੁ ॥੨੨॥ ਕ ੧੩੬੫
Death, of which people are afraid, is bliss for me; for, it is on death that one receives the supreme bliss (Kabir, SGGS, p 1365).

That is the hope. The decision to accept the soul for merger rests with Akal Purkh, the Eternal Master. I sincerely request:
ਦੇਹੁ ਸਜਣ ਅਸੀਸੜੀਆ ਜਿਉ ਹੋਵੈ ਸਾਹਿਬ ਸਿਉ ਮੇਲੁ ॥੩॥ ੧ ੧੨
My friends, please bless me that I achieve union with the Master (M: 1, SGGS, p 12)

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